I have been back on the dating scene for about two years now.
I think its ok for a woman to date multiple men at the same time, and I sometimes do.
This is the typical reaction when a friend suggests that maybe that guy whose been dangling you along for months is juggling a couple other women.
The other scenario is that these women fall in love too quickly with one guy and end up heartbroken time after time. Well here's some dating advice for women in particular...Great, now I have to find multiple destinations in completely different neighborhoods so I don't accidentally overlap and then have to have an awkward exchange in the middle of the street. I kind of like one of them, I do, but I also currently like boning multiple randos more. Making sure one hookup isn't leaving things at your place that another hookup could find later. Plus, isn't it better that I'm not committing to someone I'm not sure about than to commit too soon and still reminisce about rando boning? Aww, this love note you left on my pillow in the morning is completely cute but now I have to hide it in an old grocery bag I'll shove in my closet so the person I have coming over in an hour doesn't get offended by something they technically don't have any right to be offended by because it's only our third date. It is one thing for me to be dating multiple people, but I am supposed to be the most incredible person you have ever met, so much so that you cannot even fathom ever dating anyone else again as long as you live! It turns out, the secret to finding love and commitment is not committing too soon.So many of my clients ask me whether dating more than one man at a time is a wise idea.