My question: We’re texting everyday, but he’ll wait FOREVER, (in actuality, 5-7 days) before asking to see me again. Is this a downside of dating a typical beta (i.e., no initiative) or is he just not that interested in me?
Do I continue to utilize patience or should I move on?
Having said that…If you are in a long term relationship right now, take these 5 indicators LIGHTLY.
They do not hard core apply to YOU all the time, because when you spend THAT much time with someone, you realise that we all have moments where we slip in to different roles and he might have done something once or twice that indicated he was a beta male but really he isn’t.
The following are examples of what I feel an alpha male would not look like.I’ve had to learn the hard way, that my “go-getter” attitude does not translate well in the dating world.Not doing anything in the beginning stages of dating tends to drive me crazy.However, I was with my ex-girlfriend, and as we passionately made our bodies and lips into one on the dancefloor, it wasn’t my look that was turning people’s heads.It was the juxtaposition of my femme presentation with the clear fact that I was getting hot and heavy with a woman.
Just like you show up in your masculine energy sometimes, no matter how beautifully feminine or motherly you are 80% of the time.